How Do I Get Noticed Around Here
Listen: We all know what it looks like when someone’s not listening: rambling on, repeating a point of view, spacing out, fiddling with devices, even behaving as though they “know” what we’re about to say. But when someone truly listens, we sense a respectful attentiveness to more than our words—there’s an alertness to our being, tone of voice, body posture, and more. Not surprisingly, too, when we listen, people tend to offer their attention in return....